I got another one.

Another blog. An anonymous one. So if you find it and suspect it's me, well, maybe it is and maybe it isn't. And just so you know,

All the names have been changed to protect the innocent. Any resemblance to any person, living or dead, is purely, well, intentional. If you accidentally find that blog in the million others and read about yourself, maybe you will recognize yourself. But...what I'm doing is hiding some minor specifics so maybe you won't. I really don't want to hurt feelings, but I gotta expel that stuff one way or another.

Today- kinda stressful at work- blah blah blah- long story short I was shown how to do some things and was doing them but these are someone else's turf, and I really didn't know. She got defensive and we had a discussion of sorts and I think it's OK. The boss man doesn't care how we resolve it as long as it gets done. Here's a nice lady who really frets a lot, it's kind of like she's going into super-defensive mode a lot. I can understand why because sometimes those vibes are put out, intentionally or not, and people seem to have been let go in the past over minor things. She's afraid of making one mistake and POOF she's gone. And sometimes Gerry really does act like that, he has a SHORT memoroy for things that go smoothly and things that don't go smoothly, or things that had nothing to do with you but that he somehow subjectively associates with you, and forever it's stuck in his mind. It's his own Achilles heel as he has lost business over this but it's hard to see your own faults- we all have our blind spots. He needs this feedback but I'm afraid he won't listen. "Hey, you're making your employees nervous and hyper even though you're on the surface so laid-back and informal..."