Friday, December 08, 2006

Up in Oxford- visited Mom. After getting some info on what really happened to Mom, it looks like the doctor who messed up could be in for some serious litigation. She went in for a routine colonoscopy and is now pretty sick, due to the doc puncturing the intestine, and then they had to take 6 inches out and sew the ends together. Then come all the secondary problems with this...fever, risk of infection, the whole litany. Mom is more worried about everyone else than herself. garrrr...my dad isn't interested in suing. My parents are not a litigious type. But such an egregious error....? According to the doc the intestine was weak in that spot anyway, the intestines were in the wrong place, bladder in the wrong place. Well the doc fixed the mistake and in the process put everything in the right place, but Mom wasn't sick in the first place-felt fine and then during the exam the mistake happened- she could probably have lived with prolapsed intestines or whatever, or at least she could have had them fixed with much less discomfort than what she is dealing with now. Well Virgi and her mom have had no end of problems at the same hospital and at times I thought, wow, are they really doing all this wrong? But Vir knows her stuff, apparently. Grrrrr....well, we'll see if she's up to a suit after she's better and if she's interesting in lawyering up. My parents are afraid that if they sue no other doc in town will treat them. Now that doesn't seem fair, does it? Can doctors really do this? Is that why people are afraid now to take on Doris, because they're afraid of Virgi?

On top of that, Sierra's still at Children's. I saw her the other night and will go back tomorrow. I guess I missed a fight between Maria and Rachael. I just want Maria to stick around. It would be a good thing! Maria shouldn't take her seriously. Maria, if you're reading, please don't take her seriously! We love you!!!!!!

On top of that, my uncle Joe had a heart attack. Dad says it was mild. Dad usually makes things seem less serious than they are. So it was probably just a bit more than mild but if he's home in a couple of days as expected, then I guess it was mild. But now, like my dad, he will be taking a serious look at his own health and taking better care...my dad and uncle have always seemed to think they'd live effortlessly to be very old, like my grandpa did. "Longevity runs in the family". Yeah, especially if you till the land until what, age 70? Which Dad and Joe didn't do. Which Grandpa did.

On top of that, well, nothing. Well, something. Trying to get Micah to do his schoolwork. Getting prepared to put our house on the market. Christmas and jingle bells. Ho ho ho.

3 Comments:

At 10:15 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

How do I put this? If Mary had a weak spot and adhesions and prolapses and all that jazz she was a sick woman. She just didn't know it yet. Furthermore if the spot hadn't been ruptured during the colonoscopy then it may have ruptured on its own. Who knows when, where or how. When she was travelling the world?? Egads, talk about bad and life threatening.

I feel thankful that it happened when and where it did. I'm sure she is feeling terrible and upset but if you consider the alternative situations.......

I would cut the Doc some slack. Time to take a page from your own book with the God works in mysterious ways stuff. At least she wasn't on a bus in Chile.

 
At 7:05 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

That is true!!!

You are saying what my dad has been saying.

The thing is, she didn't feel sick going in.

They are probably not going to sue. But the first reaction of us (her kids) was "sue da bum!" I would like to at least speak with a specialist to see if there is a malpractice case. If doc was not negligent, we won't do anything.

This hospital is pretty famous for being sued a lot...I can give several cases.

I'm not a lawsuit happy person. I don't thrive off of this drama. We will just see if there is a case at all. Was it weak and bound to be punctured, or was he really not looking what he was doing...

Ann

 
At 9:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey you- praying fervently for your whole family. it was good to see your mom Sat she had color in her cheeks and looked a lot better then I thought she would! I am so thankful she is doing better and hope she gets to go home soon.

About the suit thing, as you know I am not a suit happy person either and we now have a very good Dr for my mom.

I do however regret not suing the hospital and I know they were negligent and have a record of this. I think you are right, you should investigate with a second opinion and a call to a malpractice attorney.

If this hospital keeps getting by with this people will just keep getting injured or killed it not about money 'frivolous law suits etc its about holding them accountable for their actions in hopes they will not be as careless and complacent. Oxford lost a very nice and gifted man to there negligence thank goodness your mom was not added to the list!

No doctor or hospital is perfect and we all make mistakes and your mom's intestines could have been a ticking time bomb so thank god she wasn't traveling as the other person who posted stated. I would however say that from what I have heard (and I could so be wrong) the technology they use in this procedure is supposed to guard against these types of "accidents" if the Dr is observant. btw my mom tells me she has been warned not to never go to the Dr who treated your mom and the scuttle butt at the SR center is usually on track.

right now I am just incredibly thankful your mom is ok and want to see her whole and healthy again soon! praying for you all please keep us updated or stop by when you are in town.

Vir

 

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